Top 10 things they don't tell you!

As I try to figure out this whole motherhood idea I keep finding new surprises that nobody ever told me about. I think these are the things they don't tell you on purpose, in hopes that you will become a Mom and that they can enjoy your mishaps. So that is why I am writing this post! For all of you soon to be Moms, or else to those of you who have a 2 year old and are beginning to feel baby hungry.

So here they are the top 10 things they don't tell you...

1. At some point you will get poo up your arm and be okay with it.
2. At some point you will find yourself soaking wet as you frantically pull your child from a "self-contaminated" bath tub.
3. At some point you will consider 5 hours of sleep a tremendous blessing
4. At some point you will remember the days you would wear your nice shirt/pants then put them back in the closet. Trust me you will be washing them after every wear!
5. At some point you will be sniffing your childs bum.
6. At some point you will be surprised at how you are exhausted at the end of the day and you got nothing done.
7. At some point you will smile at your husbands overwhelmed face as he only had to babysit for 3 hours.
8. At some point you will think about your younger years and you will only be in your mid twenties.
9. At some point your child may blow out on your mother nice couch (bless microfiber).
10. At some point you will find that letting your little one "cry it out" is not an easy thing (haven't been able to yet!)
And at some point you'll forget any of that happened and do it again! :)

A Few Family First's!

We spent the weekend up at my parents cabin with Mitch's Family (Matt, Kiera, Amy, Dean). To get into the cabin it is a 3 mile snowmobile ride. Mitch and I were talking on the way up that we could be boarderlining child abuse with this adventure. His mom agreed when she exclaimed "you know she is not a dog... You can't just take her anywhere!" Admittedly, I was a little bit worried but we bundled her up in 4-5 layers and zipped her up in my coat! Upon arriving at the cabin she was sleeping peacefully in my coat and seemed to love the bumpy ride! She fits right in!

Yep, she's in there!

She didn't wiggle much with all her snow clothes on!

Ellie took her first dip at the Bear Lake Indoor Pool. She seemed pretty indifferent about it all, but I think inside she loved it!

Swimming with dad, What a Hunk!

Thanks.

Perhaps it is the Christmas atmosphere that puts us in the Thankful spirit but we would be ungrateful if we did not express Thanks for our friends, family and beautiful baby Ellie. As we waited for Ellie to come Mitch and I found ourselves saying, "Are we really ready for a baby?" and, "I don't even know what to do with a baby". But since the day she was born both of us have found ourselves saying, "it's as if she just belongs here". She has a sweet disposition and a distinct Heavenly spirit that has brought a feeling of peace into our home. We are fortunate to have her and we love our little girl.

New Pictures

While taking this picture Ellie had a little accident on Mitchells arm (#2!) good girl...

She has Mitch's Feet!

She is all about style...

My Cousin Shauna took these pictures for us as a baby gift. They really turned out well I think!

Merry Christmas Everyone!

Welcome Ellie!

Ellie Marjorie Dorius Born @ 6:59 on Dec. 1st. 7 pds 13 oz. 19 inches. This is the first time I got to hold her. Mitch did a great job cleaning her up!

After 11 hours of labor Ellie stopped progressing at a '6'. Because her head was stuck and was continuing to swell, they decided to do a C-section. They made us put on our fancy hats and rushed us off to the OR all within 10 min. The C-section went perfectly. While Mitch held my hand, the Doctor let me look at a mirror above so I could watch everything, (that was really cool). After the C-section they swept her and Mitch away while they put me back together.

Mitch and I before the epidural...the natural thing became a little overrated when I was dialated to a 2.5 for 4 hours. I knew it was going to be a long day at that rate.

Our new little family!

2 days and counting!

Yes, we are still waiting. We went into the doctor last week expecting to get this party started but he simply said..."why don't we wait one more week...". If any doctor is looking for a way to make a 9 month pregnant woman cry he simply needs to say "why don't we just wait one more week". Lucky for Mitch and I, we previously talked/rehearsed this type of response, so instead of crying I kept my composure and went home and slept for 2 hours. :)
The good news is that he will be 'starting' me on Tuesday morning (December 1st). At our appointment he told us that I have a pelvic girdle that is very narrow and is not letting the baby drop. He also told us that because of the narrow passage way the baby might not be able to make it through during labor. He proceeded to tell me that he will let me 'labor' for 12 hours but if the baby is not out by then he will have to take it by C-section.
People have been asking me if I am nervous about all this. My answer... depends on the time of day. If it's before 8 p.m. no not really. After 9 p.m. yep, a little anxious. (I seem to lose emotional control after about 9 pm. Which, I don't think I should be held accountable for at the judgement bar, but I suppose I'm not the one who is writing those rules). Honestly, what makes me the most nervous is not being able to eat. I am supposed to stop eating after midnight the night before. Which means that if I do actually labor for the full 12 hours, it will be 18 hours before I eat anything (which again, no woman should be held accountable for actions/words during that time period either, again, not up to me (simply a suggestion for the judgement bar rule writer).
Overall, we are beyond excited for our little girl to join our family. We are thankful for a new addition to our little family during this holiday season...ask me if I feel the same way during 2 a.m. feedings... wink wink! Check the blog on wed for pics and updates!

The Annual Lifferth Halloween Party (part 2)

Uncle Bubba was in charge of the pirate treasure hunt, everyone had a great time.

Our fearless leader Indiana Zach always knew exactly what to do, as long as there was no snakes!

Leopard Taylor read "Cross the river of cement, and wind your way to the roaring rain gutter"

Pirate Spencer, trying to explain what a river of cement was.